Take Back the Power
Why do they affect me so much? So many times I have thought that very statement to myself about family, friends, and even ordinary people. The truth is that they have as much power over you as you give them. So if you decide to not to give them power then that's the best thing. I found myself wondering why I was upset at a someone today when the truth was that I really cared about them. As much as I told myself I could never care about a person like that it came down to a situation where this person had the power that I had given to him. I really wanted to be accepted in his eyes and it's weird what our minds will do to let that be. I also found myself getting very worked up and angry at the fact that I was so emotional when they came up and talked to me. I didn't know what to do or what should I say. That's ok because in that moment you can call me paralyzed. I started to reflect on myself and rationalize. So many thought were running through my mind and I felt so pressed with time. So I came up with a plan to take back the power we give to people.
First thing you recognize that you are giving them power. Secondly you just scope out the situation. Try thinking, are they really worth all the trouble? Are they as worked up as you are? The answer is that most likely their probably not worth the trouble and aren't nearly as worked up as you are. So I end with say Take Back The Power!!!!!
First thing you recognize that you are giving them power. Secondly you just scope out the situation. Try thinking, are they really worth all the trouble? Are they as worked up as you are? The answer is that most likely their probably not worth the trouble and aren't nearly as worked up as you are. So I end with say Take Back The Power!!!!!
posted by Wellspring Camps at 10:51 PM
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