Puting Icing on Top of Problems
Today was a good day, I went to group and we had a good group. People helped me to see things more clearly and I figured something out. Many times when I see people just sitting back and not making any progress it hurts me and makes me feel disappointed. So when I say things to my friends about their programs it may come off a little rude because I'm so used to people just being straight up to me. I am glad that someone confronted me about it. I know now that I need to process the information longer and figure out how to put icing on the top before talking to my friends about it. Molly, my Behavioral coach, told me that everybody has something that they're working on; if not our souls are dead. To me that made so much sense.
So, today's subject is putting icing on top of problems. I was told when you tell people about an issue or confront them, you should first tell them a positive, then the negative, and then another positive. So for now on. I am going to be more focused on me and when I talk to people who I care about, I am going to use that format of talking. So I end now with part of a phrase from a card my behavioral coach has:
"I have always been proud of you. Sometimes I'm just more vocal about it than others."
So, today's subject is putting icing on top of problems. I was told when you tell people about an issue or confront them, you should first tell them a positive, then the negative, and then another positive. So for now on. I am going to be more focused on me and when I talk to people who I care about, I am going to use that format of talking. So I end now with part of a phrase from a card my behavioral coach has:
"I have always been proud of you. Sometimes I'm just more vocal about it than others."
posted by Wellspring Camps at 11:40 PM
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