Giving People Space in Relationships
Well the fashion show is going pretty good. So let me tell you a funny story: I'm doing my friend's hair today, and I do her make up, I thought that the tube I was opening was lipstick when it turned out to be eye shadow. How weird is that? So I'm sure that I'm not going to do anymore make up. I'll stick to hair - that's where I belong. Lol! So I'm excited to show my skills to everyone. It seems like it's going to be very fun. I'm happy that I can boost people's self esteem. It means the world to me helping people out.
So today I got in an argument with a friend. I was telling my friend how someone was starting drama and bringing me into the middle of it. Mind you my friend just met this person. So she takes his side and I got really mad so I just walked away. I'm used to people that will be there for me and be ready to take a risk. My best friend and I have such a good relationship because we have trust there. If there is no trust that what is a relationship? I want to talk to her but she won't talk to me. I guess she's mad because I actually can stand up and walk away when I feel like I'm getting in to an unsafe space. What should I do? I think that I will give her some space and talk to her when she gets back from the camping trip. If I didn't care about her I wouldn't say anything to her and just hold in my problem. Instead I talked to her and she totally jump sides to someone who doesn't even care about her. If people don't care about us why do we care? I don't know, it's weird how I can care what so many people say but they don't give a crap about me.
So today I got in an argument with a friend. I was telling my friend how someone was starting drama and bringing me into the middle of it. Mind you my friend just met this person. So she takes his side and I got really mad so I just walked away. I'm used to people that will be there for me and be ready to take a risk. My best friend and I have such a good relationship because we have trust there. If there is no trust that what is a relationship? I want to talk to her but she won't talk to me. I guess she's mad because I actually can stand up and walk away when I feel like I'm getting in to an unsafe space. What should I do? I think that I will give her some space and talk to her when she gets back from the camping trip. If I didn't care about her I wouldn't say anything to her and just hold in my problem. Instead I talked to her and she totally jump sides to someone who doesn't even care about her. If people don't care about us why do we care? I don't know, it's weird how I can care what so many people say but they don't give a crap about me.
posted by Wellspring Camps at 5:00 PM
1 Comments:
hey cobie....... my name is skiya and louise told me about to blog and i think its wonderful what your doing.......... i say this as a female who is also over weight and is dealing with my problems. louise help sponsor me in the wellspring program as well and i feel it to be a great blessing. he also told me about to musical/ play you are doing at the school.......... i say SHOW THEM WHAT YOUR MADE OF!!!!! hope to hear from you....... my email is skybaby_flavored@yahoo.com
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